To swallow or not to swallow?!
Of course, to swallow or not to swallow semen, if oral sex led to orgasm of the partner – a personal matter of each girl. Forcing her to forcefully do it, against her will means jeopardizing the future of further relationships. Therefore, you need to agree on this in advance with the guy or orient yourself on your sensations.
It is ideal when a man quietly warns that in a few moments he will finish. Say, now you have a little time to decide his further fate of ejaculation, and what it will be – it's up to you!
Not all women like this. If you are not set up for such a completion of the process, it makes sense to warn your partner about it in advance and offer him other options, for example, providing him with a face, breasts, hands for this. It is important not to interrupt the body contact, keep the points of contact (and the more they will be, the better).
For the first blowjob, let him cum on your breasts. Swallowing is not advised, the taste can pleasantly surprise not in the best way. Why is ejaculating on your breasts ideal? It will help you get to know his semen, smell it, touch it, and if you want to, taste it.
Another option is to let the semen flow out onto his penis the moment you stick it out of your mouth. You can hold it against your cheek and let it partially drain onto your face, and that's a great solution too. Letting it drip down onto your face is incredibly arousing for many people.
Alternatively, let him cum in your mouth, but… don't swallow, but gently spit it afterward into a napkin or the palm of your hand. But you don't have to cringe and pretend that it tastes disgusting! It can be noticeably corrupted by this. You don't have to rinse your mouth defiantly: just spit it out and rinse it with water. Chew gum, eat some fruit – and the taste of semen will quickly disappear. There's nothing wrong with it – he cummed in his mouth, he enjoyed it, that's good! And swallow or not – will not affect his physiological sensations.
But if you do swallow, it's while he's in your mouth.
Sometimes oral sex needs advice – what about saliva? While you're holding him in your mouth, you're swallowing saliva one way or another. Take his cock as deep as you can so you don't feel discomfort, and when he has an orgasm, swallow his cum along with your own saliva just by holding his cock in your mouth. It works provided he doesn't have a lot of cum, and it will just mix in with your saliva.
Alternatively, try to swallow his dick as deep as possible when ejaculating (your man will be only too happy about that!). With a deep grip, the penis goes down the throat, and the likelihood that semen will get on the tongue itself becomes less, which means you won't taste it. And, when the man starts to cum, the only thing left to do is swallow.
Yes, definitely swallowing semen is optional, but it shows love and acceptance. They will come back to you in the form of luxurious cunnilingus and hot sex. The most comfortable way to take cum by mouth is by kneeling in front of your partner. Gravity will keep you from triggering the gag reflex. If the penis is deep enough in your throat, you won't even taste it.
