And that's totally fair! Okay, if you were just trying to please there and did everything tender and caring, but for some reason you didn't bring her to orgasm… that's okay, there may still be more than one chance, she'll just see it as part of the petting. It's much worse if you persist in trying to bring her to orgasm without any idea how things work. Roughly rubbing the clitoris, scratching with nails and stubble, climbing in there with dirty hands, panting, drooling on the bed, etc. Then it turns into the torture of the Inquisition with the only desire to end it all as soon as possible and not do it again. Ever again.
Or you, again due to ignorance, tried there for a couple minutes and that's it, it's done, it's time to move on to your own needs… and she needs more. Why then was it even to start, tease… solid disappointment and, as a consequence, unpleasant experience.
The fifth reason is you're hoping for a “comeback.” If you're reading this standing up, take a seat – many women refuse cunnilingus so that they have the legal right to not give you a blowjob. She doesn't want it, she doesn't like it. A blow job is so unexciting and unmotivating to them that they are readily willing to give it up at the expense of their own pleasure. Now live with it.
By the way, I have an awesome book on the subject, “Fantastic blowjob from A to Z”. After her no blowjob is not terrible.
All of the above reasons for refusal are solved by the usual frank conversation – and teach you can, and wash her before cunnilingus and, over time, learn to fully trust you and relax. And blowjob is cool, if you do it right.
Lovely young ladies, it's high time to realize and accept the fact that if your lover wasn't interested in satisfying you with oral sex, he or she simply wouldn't do it. Cunnilingus is something that is completely natural and is not in any way obscene or embarrassing. It is just one way of foreplay or an exciting aftertaste. Just like you, your partner may enjoy it, he may actually enjoy it – it is his way of expressing his exclusive affection for you. In addition, it makes him feel good to know that his skills are guaranteed to bring you to orgasm. This scenario is quite realistic!
Remember, my lovelies, that you have every right to enjoy yourself. Just do not interfere with him, let him do everything really well, do not refuse such an offer. At this moment you are sharing your own intimate zone, where each of you receives and gives pleasure.
Why don't men want to?
– A real man will never allow himself to lick something there – so confidently and proudly can declare every third representative of the stronger sex.
Many women regretfully have to agree that their favorite is against cunnilingus. Why? Maybe he has a really good reason for it! Such, of course, there are, but they are not always valid …
Men don't grovel.
Many representatives of the older generation are not particularly interested in oral caresses of female genitals, considering it completely humiliating and unacceptable. While young men, more progressive and educated, on the contrary, try to please their partners in all sexual aspects.
However, despite this, there are still quite a few men who do not welcome such intimate acts. They gather in companies, discuss men's issues and at any mention of cunnilingus they cringe in disgust, saying that they do not do such things. In fact, most of them are still ready and regularly pamper their partner with oral caresses if they want to give her pleasure. And only because of the accepted views and beliefs among “their own”, they never admit it.
