We need to talk more, have a heart-to-heart conversation. You don't have to spend the whole day figuring out what words to use so that you can ask them in the evening after work and make it as painful as possible. Remember the promise in the registry office, when you promise that you will be together in joy and in sorrow together. Words whose value we lose lead to problems.
It is necessary to gather all the will in a fist and try to solve the problem, some tension in the relationship that leads to male infidelity.
We must not forget that, in addition to moral damage, you can get infected with quite dangerous infectious diseases, which in turn can lead to impotence, infertility or other chronic viral infections, infections that are incurable. One night out can ruin the rest of both of their lives, and even worse, if the wife starts cheating, the problem will only get worse.
Everything is interconnected on Earth, in one place if there is a problem, this problem is expanding, the negative multiplies faster and more globally than kindness.
Human behavior is dominated by the so-called ancient brain, the reptilian brain, which controls all instincts, such as hunger and getting food, the instinct to reproduce and sex. These instincts are impulsively stronger than a person's consciousness, and if a person is not able to control them, very negative actions from the point of view of morality and medicine, as well as the law, occur. A person's head is given to think, to weigh actions.
One of the great ones said that the need for sexual diversity arises from a not very high development of intelligence. Talk more, find common ground. If each person starts cheating on the other in retaliation, then it can start going on for quite a long time and will not end in anything, or rather, it will end in the same way. Someone will become a Sunday dad, someone will wait for alimony, and someone will live and grow up without one parent in the house.
Children who grow up in families where their parents are divorced are essentially orphans with living parents. The psyche deteriorates so much that it will sometimes be quite difficult to adapt to life.
When you are young, your rash actions can then be reflected in your old age. As you know, in life you have to pay for everything, so the question is not whether you can avoid punishment or not, but when it comes and how severe it will be.
Many philosophers and psychotherapists consider polygamy as a psychological disease, even as a mental illness, to be more precise, a deviation when a person seeks diversity for the same actions. A person may live with one for convenience, and then walk on the side. Everyone has their own interest.
It is better to give passion to each other than to be scattered so everywhere, there is no point in this at all. Learn to abstract in your problems, otherwise you can even drown in your thoughts, get confused.
The fact that a man earns little or does not spend enough on his wife is quite common. This is no longer perceived as something eventful. Everyone is sure that this is normal, or rather, not normal.
Why did we decide to focus on money separately?
The presence or absence, or lack of money often leads to conflicts, sometimes so strong that they end up in divorce quite quickly.
The world has become so immersed in commodity-money relations that it has become a kind of fuel, the absence of which begins to anger the subjects of the economy. In this case, each person can be represented as a subject of the economy, since he does not have enough money.
